RED, WHITE AND BLUE

“Mrs. Woodruff, what girl is ever going to go home with me from a bar?”  He looked up at me with a lopsided grin that said he was partially joking but also dead serious.  His voice was devoid of self pity.  

I glanced at his thick reddish blonde hair, wide smile, his incredibly muscled shoulders and then my eyes strayed to his legs, or where his legs should have been.  Darren was a private in the US Army, who’d been hit by a car bomb in Fallujah. He is a 24 year-old double amputee.

In these wild oats years, when he should have been kicking up his heels in every honky tonk bar in his native Tennessee, Darren had spent more than a year in a VA Hospital recovering from the physical and emotional injuries of war.  Like so many veterans, real recovery is an ongoing journey.  This is what life looks like, interrupted, but undeterred. 

He’d been in middle school when Bin Laden and his band of terrorists slammed into the World Trade Centers and the Pentagon. It had made an impression as a boy.  And when he was old enough, he told me, he’d signed up because he was an American and it was the right thing to do.  Darren wanted some action.  He wanted to defend his country from terrorists.  He had assessed the danger, but the bad thing always happens to someone else.

There is never any “why me” from guys like Darren, no palpable self-pity.  “This isn’t a disability,” one marine I met said to me, dancing in his wheel chair and popping a wheelie – “this is just a different way to get around.” 

 

It’s entirely possible that you’ve never run across a guy like Darren. Many of our service members live in and return to small towns and rural areas.  They hail from the Midwest and points south, from Texas and New England.  For those of us who make our livings in cities, it might not immediately occur to us that the man with the service dog on the sidewalk is an Iraq war vet or the mother with the prosthetic arm in Wal-Mart served two tours.  These are proud and humble people, mostly self-deprecating in that envious way that makes you wish you had a little more of that.  

 

The people I’ve met don’t see themselves as heroes.  They were just doing their job, they’ll tell you. And their job was protecting us.  Just ask the Navy Seals who took out Bin Laden or the medic who was able to put two tourniquets on his guys before he attended to his own blown off leg. This job is not for the faint of heart.  And that job benefits you whether you feel it or not.  Someone has to protect the castle. Someone has to pull the night watchman’s shift.

This Fourth of July, I hope you have a chance to gather with family and friends.  And as you celebrate by a lake or an ocean, overlook the purple mountain’s majesty or the rolling plains, someone like Darren, someone young and proud and very brave, is on a foreign base or in a military vehicle in the desert, wearing far too much gear for a place so hot. They are there because their country asked them to go and they stood up and raised their hands.

 

There are no politics here, no labels.  This isn’t about being for or against these wars.  And it’s not about being pro-military, hawk or dove, donkey or elephant.

This is about the fact that no matter what complaints we have about our country, no matter what we’d like to change or improve, every single one of us should take pride in being American.   The same kind of resonant pride that bloomed after September 11th.  Sure, there is corruption and abuse of power; there are pork barrel politics, racism and extremism.  But we are a complex nation.  We fought for the right to be independent, and we founded a nation on the principal that all were welcome, free from persecution and tyranny and we’ve done the best we could with the times we had.  As a country we are continually a work in progress.  We are a perfectly imperfect vast land of disparate, differing folks braided together. We are fallible, but ever hopeful, ever striving.

 

This July 4th, take a moment in between the BBQ or the fireworks to think about what it means to be personally free, and how that freedom has a cost.  More than 360,000 of our veterans have returned home from the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan with some kind of a brain injury alone.  That doesn’t count the amputees or the fallen.  Behind each one of these statistics are individuals and families whose lives are forever changed, irretrievably different because of their service.

 

And when our countrymen come home wounded, different or broken—it’s up to the rest of us, the people like you and me who didn’t make a sacrifice, to take care of them.

That’s just simply what people of a great nation do.

I hope this video inspires you this July 4th.

Patriotism

I love the patriotism of this time of year. Honoring our servicemembers of  long ago as well as our brave ones of today.   Please take a moment in honor of the 4th by clicking on "click here to enter the challenge and support us today" link below and watch the video to learn more about the amazing work the Bob Woodruff Foundation supports.  Bob met with some incredible people. Inspiration guaranteed! Donating simply $10 will help us earn a bonus contribution from the generous BWF friend, Craig Newmark. Wishing you and your family a Happy Fourth of July!

Lee

Starting today, June 28 Craig Newmark, a long time friend and supporter of the Bob Woodruff Foundation and founder of Craigslist, is giving away $100,000 to four organizations working on behalf of Veteran’s and Military Families. This campaign is part of a new initiative Craig just launched on craigconnects.org. Every donation you make between today and June 30th gives us a chance to win a grant from Craig. The winners are determined by the number of donations we receive NOT how much we raise. It’s easy and your donation WILL make a difference. Before July 4th weekend, take a minute, and donate $10 or more to the Bob Woodruff Foundation. Click here to enter the challenge and support us today.  Every little bit is appreciated and counts. The Bob Woodruff Foundation provides resources and support to service members, veterans and their families to successfully reintegrate into their communities so they may thrive physically, psychologically, socially and economically. Through a public education movement called ReMIND.org, the Bob Woodruff Foundation helps educate the public about the needs of service members returning from war — especially the 1 in 5 service members who have sustained hidden injuries such as Traumatic Brain Injury and Combat Stress, including Post Traumatic Stress, Depression and Anxiety — and empowers communities nationwide to take action. Across the country, the Bob Woodruff Foundation collaborates with other organizations and experts to identify and solve issues related to the return of service members from combat to civilian life and invests in programs that connect our troops to the help they need — from individual needs like physical accommodations, medical care and counseling, to larger social issues like homelessness and suicide.  To date, the Bob Woodruff Foundation has invested over $9 million, impacting more than 1,000,000 service members, support personnel, veterans and their families nationwide. Through traditional and social media efforts the Bob Woodruff Foundation has reached over 434 million Americans. For more information about the Bob Woodruff Foundation and toparticipate in this campaign click here. We only have three days to take advantange of this great opportunity!  Spread the word on Facebook and Twitter, tell your family and friends about the great work of the Bob Woodruff Foundation and our opportunity to receive $40,000 when you show your support of our nation’s heroes and their families.           The Bob Woodruff Foundation is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Our tax ID number is 26-1441650. PO Box 955, Bristow, VA 20136 info@remind.org